For our whole marriage, (nearly seven years) Aaron has either been in school, or applying for/working towards school. (Our first year he finished his BA at SJSU, 2006-2009 we were in Utah at BYU while he worked on an MA, 2009-2012 JD from UC Hastings). Now, for the first time in our married lives, neither of us are students (though I was only a student the first 6 months, then I started my hiatus). It's a weird feeling. He's not commuting to San Francisco every day. There is no studying for tests, or writing papers. It's nice.